*MENACE OF PEDOPHILES*
WHO IS A PEDOPHILE?
A PEDOPHILE IS AN ADULT WHO TAKES PLEASURE IN HAVING SEXUAL RELATIONSHIP WITH MINORS
. Pedophilia is not written on anybody’s face
. A pedophile can leave with you for years and you won’t know
. Pedos can be male or female
*What are the fruits of pedophiles* ?
They penetrate deep into your heart until you become very comfortable with them
They are usually very friendly with kids
They are always praising the kids they are targeting
They are experts at grooming
They are not in haste
They take their time to plan and strategize before they act
They are ready to spend on a child what they cannot spend on their wife or any other adult
They hardly show irritation with kids
They are experts at discovering kids love language
They know how to turn kids against their parents
They are like chameleon
In other words they are good pretenders.
They have no shame and no pity
That is why a father can molest his own daughter
And an adult can break into a 6month old baby.
They are heartless.
The painful and agonizing cry of a child does not move them
When they are before you or just before they have their way with a child, they appear to be the best friends to have
But immediately they get what they are looking for then turn to monsters
*WHERE ARE THEY FOUND*?
They are everywhere
They are among the teachers in your child’s school
They are among the Sunday school teachers in the church
Your domestic servants are not innocent until they are proven so
Your colleagues in your working place.
They can be in the public vehicle.
They are everywhere
Relatives who spend some time in your home.
May God help us because one doesn’t know who to trust anymore.
And the worst of it all , some PARENTS ARE PEDOPHILES.
SHOULD WE NOW START SUSPECTING EVERYBODY AROUND US? NO.
But importantly, every parents needs an extra pair of eyes.
A parent should be able to see more than meets the eyes.
A parent should read and understand the body language of a child.
Your primary assignment is parenting.
Your business or official work is secondary
*HOW DO WE KNOW THEM*?
Parenting is not easy task. May God help us.
Like I do say having children is not as important as watching over them like mother hen.
Watch your child’s behavior towards any adult that comes around him or her regularly
Check out for those adults who are always looking for ways to stay ALONE with a child
Check out for those who like to play ONLY with kids, not that they are naturally very playful but they just like to play with kids.
Be on your guard against any adult that buys unsolicited gifts for a particular child
5. Dig deeper if your husband start picking on your daughter.
6. If any adult, including teachers in the school suddenly starts taking unusual interest in your child, don’t keep quiet
7. If someone suddenly makes himself or herself the spokesperson for your child, please be suspicious.
8. Don’t be too comfortable with those young guys who offer to teach your child ALONE without payment.
THE WORST OF IT IS SOME PARENTS ARE PEDOPHILES.
How then can we manage this
To manage parents that are pedophiles:
The other parent should be bold enough to speak out on behalf of the child.
There are several government agencies and NGOs that are ready to take up the case of such child.
In some cases the child may be taken away from such parents till they are of age to defend themselves.
But where the problem lies is that many times the child is intimidated to silence.
You should not parent only your own children.
some mothers may hide in disguise of covering shame for the family.
If you know of a child that is being abused by a parent or people they are living with please be the voice and speak out on their behalf.
A greater shame or disaster may befall such family if the woman fails to speak up.
*HOW CAN WE PROTECT OUR CHILDREN*?
1. GOOD AND EARLY SEXUALITY EDUCATION
2. INCULCATE GOOD SELF ESTEEM INTO THEM
3. KNOW AND SPEAK THEIR LOVE LANGUAGE
IF A PEDOPHILE DISCOVERS YOUR CHILD’S LOVE LANGUAGE BEFORE YOU, THEY WILL USE IT TO CAUSE YOU PAIN.
4. DON’T ALLOW UNNECESSARY ATTACHMENT BETWEEN YOUR CHILD AND ANY ADULT.
5. DO NOT TRUST EVERY ADULT WITH YOUR CHILD
6. TEACH YOUR CHILD TO HAVE SELF CONTROL AND BE SATISFIED WITH WHAT YOU GIVE TO HIM OR HER
7: BE CAREFUL WITH THE KIND OF PERSONS YOU BRING INTO YOUR HOME
8. DON’T BRING A HOUSE HELP INTO YOUR HOME IF YOU DON’T TRUST YOUR HUSBAND
9. YOUR CHILD SHOULD NOT BECOME AN ERRAND GIRL FOR EVERYBODY IN YOUR NEIGHBORHOOD
DON’T EXPOSE YOUR CHILD THROUGH INDECENT DRESSING
10: PLAN THE SLEEPING ARRANGEMENT IN YOUR HOME VERY WELL
*ABOVE ALL, LET YOUR HOUSEHOLD KNOW GOD AND WALK IN HIS WAYS*.
This is to all Parents, especially the mother’s.