I WOULDN’T PRAY THAT MY EX WILL REGRET NOT MARRYING ME!
You see that statement up there, that was what a friend said to me during one of our discussions about relationships. I was really impressed to hear that from him. I barely hear such from singles especially those who have experienced a broken relationship. That statement sounded good to me and I pondered on it for a while.
Immediately he made that statement, among other questions that came to my mind was, how many single brothers and sisters can truly wish or pray that their EX will marry well and enjoy their marriage despite the fact that they broke their heart, jilted or even wasted their time? HOW MANY, even among we Christians?! This question actually got me thinking.
This is a very BAD attitude I’ve noticed among Christian brothers and sisters as though relationship is a do or die affair. That your relationship with a brother or sister did not work for whatever reason is not enough reason to start wishing them evil with whosoever they marry. Some will even say their EX will never find a good person to marry. Are you God ni? 🙄
If you wish your EX bad because of what transpired between you in the past, you will also have a share in your evil wish and if the table really want to turn ehn, your evil wish might just backfire into your own marriage! Life is so simple, don’t complicate it. It is not really about what happened to you, it’s all about what you did with it!
Marriage is not by fire or force. Breakup in relationship happens for different reasons. Some of us are even insensitive to the fact that some breakup is actually for our own good. I shout this everytime; Learn to see God in EVERYTHING you go through! You should start running with WHAT GOD IS SAYING concerning your life.
God is preparing the way and He is bringing you into the place He has prepared for you. There is a voice that speaks to your spirit, directing your path! A broken relationship is far better than a broken marriage but when you experience a heartbreak, I beg you by the mercies of God, please stop wishing or praying that your EX will REGRET not marrying you. It doesn’t befit you as a child of God.
Believe me, such evil wish can even hinder your own marital testimonies too. Instead of wishing them a bad and terrible marriage, PRAY FOR THEM. When you pray for them, you’re praying for yourself aslo. Move on with your beautiful life, forgive them and forgive yourself too so as not to hinder the beautiful plans God has for your future.
Let me leave you with this:
And we know that ALL THINGS work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose.
I trust you’ve been blessed.