WHAT KEEPS A MAN ?
What keeps a man has been a question that many needs an answer to, some women will say I tried my best, I gave him the best sex style, I cooked his food, wash his clothes, care for him, submitted to him, love him and helped him etc but yet He is still find joy with other women.
Below here are Four Personalities involved in keeping a Man:
1. The Man: The man you want to keep must first decided to be kept by one woman. I remembered back then in school of some few classmate who have decided to marry more than one wife so you see if a good woman marries such man no matter how good she is such man cannot be kept from having more than one wife becuase that his is decision before he even marry.
If a man does not want to be kept by one woman, no matter how good you tried as a woman he will still wander away with other women because such man cannot be kept except he decided otherwise.
So the question is DOES THE MAN YOU ARE TRYING YO KEEP WANT TO BE KEPT BY ONE WOMAN OR HE WANT TO BE KEPT BY NUMEROUS WOMAN?
so don’t kill yourself trying to over please a man who have decided to have One Wife with Different Concubines or to have Numerous Wives.
My Counsel to Men who does not want to be kept by one woman that there are looming dangers ahead of you and that of your Children and above all, God ways when it comes to marriage is ONE MAN + ONE WOMAN not + Two women or + 1 side chic.
There is nothing you are looking for from other women that your Wife cannot have if you help her to have it. What are those things that triggers your feelings for other women please extend it to your wife because it is observed that many of the Unfaithful Men married Wonderful wives but their mindset of not to be caged by one woman in the name of marriage is causing the issue…it is Sweet and Holy to have one wife so please men be keepable by one woman.
2. HIS WOMAN: Most times many men wants to be kept by one woman, they have decided to marry and be be faithful to one wife but is a pity that the woman they married does not have what it takes to keep them so instead of them dying to emotional wahala they find themselves in the web of sexual immorality as a solace to their life.
What a woman does to a man can either keep a man or chase the man away to the hands of other women who will keep the man.
Many wives does not know the Value of their husband until he is gone, some women don’t know how blessed they are having a husband who loves, care and faithful to them rather they begin to use their Character (actions and reactions) to make their marriage boring some even go extra mile to suffocate life from the man they claim to love.
When a woman does good things to a man who want to be kept by one woman then such marriage get better by the day.
So the question to women who wants to keep their man is DO YOU HAVE WHAT IT TAKES TO KEEP YOUR MAN OR TO CHASE YOUR MAN AWAY ?. Some husband had ran away from their Home because of their Wives behaviours. So Wives my Counsel is You Give to Your Husbands What they wants per time, Love them in the language they understand and be an asset and a blessing in their lives that your absence will be greatly felt not regretly rejoiced.
3. THE SOCIETY: When it comes to keeping a man the society have a major role to play.
A married man that cheats do such with another woman except he is a gay but the truth is if every woman can fight for each other then the world be a better a place. If a single lady or a married woman can say NO to that married man and advise him to go back to his wife then Cheating will reduce but the situation we have now is where some women wants another woman’s Husband as their husband or as their Concubine.
Also let me talk to the friends of the married men who always give counsel to a man to cheat on his wife or to marry more than one wife dues the man’s wife character just to teach her a lesson or just to help the man from his emotional stress, you people are not doing well at all and let me ask you this, IS YOUR WIFE 100% PERFECT?
Cheating or polygamous is not a way to make a Woman Sober, Submissive, Caring or Loving because there are better way to do that.
Let the society stand up to chase married men back to their wives, let women reject Relationship proposal from Married Men, let the Married Friends and Family always counsel the Man to face His Wife by Encouraging Him and Giving Him Godly Counsel.
So the question for the society is ARE YOU PART OF THE WOMEN OR MEN WHO WANTS A MAN TO BE FAITHFUL TO HIS WIFE OR YOU ARE AGENT THAT PUT COUPLES ASUNDER ?
4. HIS GOD: The scripture made us to understand that Except The Lord is Involved in the building of a House and in the Keeping of a City all that Labour just did it in Vain so the Same Way that Except that Lord is involved in the Building and Keeping of a Marriage such Marriage will just be striving or crawling or be at mess.
Do you want to be kept as a man or as a woman do you want to keep your man from both internal and external issues then invite God into your Marriage, Follow God’s Word for your marriage and take cover in God for Protection, Grace and Wisdom.
The Wisdom needed to keep your Marriage must come from God not from people alone.
There are some daughters of jezebel out there who uses incantation, voodoo or spell to take people’s husband but a man and woman soaked under God Protection will surely not be their Victim.
Some marriages have been scatter not because the husband or wife want it to be so but because of a strange woman out there who manipulated the whole thing. The Question is DO YOU WANT GOD TO KEEP YOUR MARRIAGE? If yes, THEN COMMIT EACH OTHER TO GOD PROTECTION AND PROVISION.
In conclusion, A man that do not want to be kept by one woman cannot be kept by one woman though God, Society and His Woman can only try their best but the Man Himself has the final say on this subject matter.
I believe this message have blessed you please do share with your spouse and loved ones that are Married.
I decree an end to every satanic Manipulation and Activities over your Spouse and Marriage in the Name of Jesus Christ, Amen.
©️ Ajayi Adeniyi Smile
Destiny and Relationship Coach.
Rose and Rings Platform.
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